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Catching the bus at 7.30 we joined half of the cities population at the bus station, before we found the rest of them a few miles down the track. Now, we talk about traffic jams but this was crazy. We traveled about 20 kms in just over 2 hours. The roads were packed with cars, buses of all sizes, trucks and of course motorbikes. The bikes had an advantage in that they could leave the roadway and travel along the dusty verge, creating another lane to the highway. Local buses were packed and the aisles full, a seat space that should hold two had six. People were perched on the window sills of the opened windows. We were going to Mui Ne, a fishing village come tourist resort at what is normally about a four hour drive from the city. This journey took us a little over seven. Mind you, just leaving the bus station was a challenge with 10 tour buses all going to Mui Ne that morning. Normally there are 2, one in the morning and one in the evening. No wonder we had trouble booking accommodation. Thanks to a good book and good conversation, the trip was enjoyable enough if not long.
We arrived at our water side hotel, settled in and took a walk along the beach. The sky was a little cloudy but the air was fresh. Shells of all sorts had been washed up on the beach and there were children digging in the wet sand and jumping the waves.
There are two towns close by here. Phan Thiet is famous for its production of fish sauce and salt harvesting. The stench that filled the air made no mistake of thinking you were somewhere else. Mui Nei, about 20kms further on, is a little fishing village which is well supported with tourism. Fortunately we were staying in Mui Ne, away from the fish sauce. I had been here before but it was James first visit. Oh, the other thing Phan Thiet is famous for is its golf course.
While James played golf, I lazed under the palm trees, watching the kite surfers playing in the wind. Before he was off the course, I changed hotel. No, not to get away from him, he knew about it. Because of the difficulty getting accommodation, we had to change hotels after one night.
Our second hotel was smaller but our bungalow opened onto the beach, so at night we were lulled to sleep by the sound of crashing waves. After dinner we would lie outside on sun beds but under the stars, listening to the water and the putt putting of the small fishing boats making their way out to sea. We watched their distant lights bounce on the waves as we consumed a bottle of wine and solved the problems of the world.
On our last day we hired a motorbike and had a look around. We stopped to look at the fishing
We rode the bike up to the dunes of red sand, children here with pieces of plastic trying to entice the tourists to slide down the dunes. They carry baskets of pearls and shells to sell, it is hard to resist their cute smiles and pleading eyes. I wondered why they were not at school but guess the little cash they get from the tourist justifies to their family the reason for them missing an education. Mind, you I have found these children to speak very good English, a little something extra gained from the tourists.
Further around the coast we stopped for a café sue da, a drink of coffee filtered into a glass, then mixed with condensed milk and topped with crushed ice. Just the thing on a hot day. Then back down for a drive through Phan Thiet before back to the hotel and a swim in the pool with cocktails delivered to the poolside. We had dinner with some friends, as I said everyone from
The night skies were lit with an electrical storm so we sat on the steps that led from our bungalow to the beach and watched either the lightening or the crabs running sideways on the sand. It seemed a perfect way to end a holiday that was a relaxing respite. The next day we were on the bus but with less traffic, the trip unfortunately had us home too quickly.





It still has that grab, that feeling of delight every time I head out the door.
I sit on the back of the bike, either on the way to work or on a little errand around the town. There is always a child like excitement in seeing or experiencing something new. I have always said that kids before the age of 5 learn something new everyday and, if we kept learning at the rate of a young child, we would all be geniuses. That is sort of what the experience of living in
This city is seductive and I admit I am in love. Perhaps my viewpoint is tainted and I have to admit that there are some sights that should remain unseen. We always remove our shoes at the door, a testament to the fact that there is excrement in the streets. Children are taught from a young age that “if you have to go, you just go”. The acceptance of people spitting in the street has to explain the incidence of TB. I walk the street with my eyes down, not only to avoid anything that I don’t want on the bottom of my shoes, but also to avoid a bodily injury as the footpaths are in such bad repair. And that is if you can walk on the footpaths. Parking space is scarce and priority is given to motorbikes on the footpath. If you leave the path to walk on the road edge, the gutters are invariably filled with rubbish. This is either bagged or just thrown, to be collected once or twice a day, providing there isn’t a down pouring of rain to wash it further down the drains.
But with all of that taken into account, it is still a beautiful city. The 10 million odd people, who contribute to that rubbish and sticky goo in the gutters, are so happy. There is a comfortably, relaxed, calm that seems to be genetic. I have seen no evidence of road rage, although I think there is sometimes reason for it. Nobody seems to get stressed by the little things, everyone is calm and things still get done, perhaps not with the precision that I am used to at home. But does that matter?
Children are a priority in everyone’s lives, parents and grandparents, aunties and uncles are all devoted to the youngest members of the families. Children are spoon fed sitting in doorways or carried up and down the streets. We watched a group of kids playing on a hill of gravel as the workmen shifted wheel barrows around them. Although the children were spilling gravel onto the road and running down the hill onto the road to dodge motorbikes, nobody chastised them, it was just accepted as kids having fun. I wrote a school report for one of my students who is disruptive and inattentive in class. The grandmother’s response was “he is a child, just give him love’. Family is very important here and their bonds are full of love.
The people here work hard, physically hard. Most people work six days a week, if not seven. Businesses are open till about 10pm having opened at 8am. If they don’t have a place of work to go to, they set up a shop in the front room of their house or a stall on the foot path to sell homemade meals. Physical work is just that…..physical. Building sites are wrapped in striped plastic to resemble a circus tent while behind the screen there are balancing acts with buckets of gravel. Others walk the tight rope of scaffolding with wheelbarrows and motor cycle helmets their only protection. They put on a good show but there are no clowns. Young and old women sit in poor light on concrete floors beading gowns that they will never get to wear. Occupational safety is a concept not yet discovered here. Employees don’t belong to unions who work on their behalf, campaigning against work conditions or long hours. 44 hours a week is more than common, accompanied by pathetic financial reimbursement for their time and effort.
I still can’t put my finger on exactly what pulls me to this place. I say I was Asian in a previous life. All I know is that I am still happy and loving this country with all it has to offer.


dirty and depressing. There is an obvious sex trade providing income for young males, as some rather sleazy looking westerners walk the streets with young boys. The sight of children begging for food or money while we sat at our restaurant table brought tears. I had just spent a few weeks in Australia with my grandchildren who are well protected and want for nothing and the contrast to these vulnerable young kids, dirty, hungry and desperate was just heart breaking. We bought bananas to offer as we walked the streets and were approached by hungry children, but they ran out before the hands stopped reaching up.
with barbed wire and bars to a hell hole. Scribbled on wall a message from someone else who was shocked by the place, "When this was a prison, nobody learned. When this was a school, nobody died".
among the ancient twisting tree roots.